1. I am so sorry that you had a tough afternoon. It seems evident that you both love each other very much.

    I am wondering that given you are still young in terms of fertility, have you thought about doing IVF as you had planned but freezing your eggs, so it will give him time to get on the same page. Maybe seeing you go through IVF and doing the shots, he may be okay with proceeding with fertilization. If not, you have your basis covered, and you can still become a Mom on your own in a year if he does not come around. By doing this you will also feel that you are no longer in limbo and have taken some concrete steps towards baby.

    Sorry if this is out of line. I don't know much about your medical history and if you have to do IVF with him only, or in general. But I was thinking this may be a middle ground where you two could compromise.

    Sending you lots of good wishes.

  2. Oh, I'm so sorry! I hate to see you hurting like this. I say it's okay to take some time to think about what he said, and how you feel about it. It's okay to not be coping well - this is really rough stuff you're going through. Take it one step at a time and be kind to yourself, and to him. I'm so sorry you're going through this! Hugs to you.