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  1. Making a list seems simple, yes, but it really might help you sort out your thoughts. Your post today seems more lucid, like you're starting to gain some clarity on the situation, which I think is really good. It's good to let the air clear so you can see what the real issues are, and what needs to be fixed. Also, you look more hopeful in your photo today than you have in days, which I hope is a good sign. Good luck to you!

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  2. While I wouldn't make a decision solely from the list, a list can't hurt but only help. DH and I split for a time because of infertility, and I wish I had made a list. For me I wonder if it would have kept me around, even though we both agreed that for us it allowed us to start over with a friendship, to in turn remember why we loved each other and got married in the first place. Good luck, big hugs.

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  3. The list is easier said than done. I'm trying to be as objective as possible, but am I basing my points on the situation 'now' or 'previously'? We've both changed so much, so maybe I should focus on what would need to be done to keep us together.... or how our lives could be without each other...
    And 'meggola', you say I seem more hopeful in this photo. Jeez, I am more confused than EVER! Hahaha. I'm unable to be miserable all the time, as this time apart is exactly the right thing for me to be doing right now.
    Thanks for your comments, and Emms - can I ask how things are going in your relationship now? was it a long and difficult road?

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  4. sometimes you have to put it out there to see where your head really is. Thinking of you. this totally sucks.

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