31 comments
  1. So, so sorry Ali! I hope we can support you through this. : (

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  2. I'm so sorry Ali. :( I can't imagine how much pain you must be in right now. Sending you a big hug. :(

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  3. Aw crap. I'm so sorry. I had a chemical with my first IVF too and it sucked. They'll (meaning the docs and nurses) tell you that it's a good thing - that the fact that the embryo implanted is a step in the right direction, and it's true, but it still sucks big time. Hugs to you.

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  4. I am so sorry, Ali. This is not what I was expecting to read at all :-( I had a chemical last year and its tough. Hugs.

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  5. Oh, this is so sad. I'm so sorry. *hugs*

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  6. Im sorry and I know it sucks..

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  7. I am so so so so sorry.

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  8. so sorry for what you are going thru Ali. I was really hoping it would all work out for you. I have my blood test on Monday, but I am not feeling too hopeful as today I am getting all my classic signs of AF arriving soon. (((hugs)))

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  9. Ali, I am gutted for you. I am so sorry and I know this will be a tough time for you. I am here if there is anything at all I can say or do. Huge hugs x x x

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  10. Anonymous20 July, 2012

    Hi there!

    I'm 10dp5t; this morning I went for my blood test and I expect that to be negative :( This morning I had a HPT and it clearly showed I'm not pregnant! This my bloody 5th IVF!!!

    I'm so sorry for you and I can relate to you even if I've never experienced any BFP.

    And I keep telling myself if I survive this I'll get stronger!

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  11. ***hugs*** Ali, I wish this wasn't happening. I wish I could fly to Australia and give you a giant hug. I am so very sorry.

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  12. Oh Ali, I am so so sorry this is happening again. Thinking of you and sending huge hugs...xoxo

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  13. I'm so sorry honey, I was so thinking this would be it. Big big hugs to you.

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  14. I just wanted to thank everyone for their words of support and kindness. I had a few tears today, but overall am feeling OK. This is just another bump in our road to parenthood, and we will fight on. Chop and I are planning to try again with one of our frosties as soon as the Doc says we can, so there is still hope for the future.
    I am just really interested to learn a bit more about what might have caused this to work... but fail... This is my 2nd pregnancy to not progress (last year my embryo didn't grow beyond 5 weeks, and now I'm currently 4 weeks pregnant and about to lose another embryo)... It's shit, but hopefully there are some answers or things that can be adjusted for our next attempt. xx

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  15. (((((Hugs)))))))) i'm so sorry, Ali. Damn damn DAMN.

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  16. I'm so sorry. Sending hugs.

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  17. I woke up in the middle of the night to see how your beta went. I am so sorry Ali. I definitely think you have the right mindset though. Like you said, you have two frostie babies waiting for you! I know it still doesnt make a failed cycle feel any better though.

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  18. I am so so sorry. Sending you lots of Canadian ((HUGS))

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  19. I am so sorry, Ali. Sending love and prayers from Alabama.

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  20. I'm really sorry, Ali. :( Thinking of you.

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  21. I am so terribly sorry. Just so unfair. I know life isn't supposed to be fair but it's still bs.

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  22. This just sucks. Really, really sucks. I am really inspired by your positive outlook on it. Yes, you do have those 2 frosties and that is something to hold on to for comfort. All my love and hugs to you and Chop!

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  23. Ali, I am so deeply sorry. I read this last night and due to all my tears I couldn't write a response.

    Sending you a million hugs!
    You are always in my thoughts.

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  24. So sorry. It's just so unfair!

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  25. {{HUGS}} to you. I don't know much about how these things work as this is my first IVF but could it have been just a bit too early to tell. Could Wed test yield better results or is this a certainty that it worked but failed?

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  26. My heart aches for you after reading this post. I will be doing my retreival next week for my first ever IVF. I have so many fears but I'm working hard to trust God's will. Sending lots of *hugs* for you to be in a better place soon!

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  27. Anonymous21 July, 2012

    Hi if it can be of any consolation I got the results of beta earlier on...it's indeed BFN :(
    I'm so sorry for you I can understand how it feels. I have two cats too and I love them!

    Hugs!

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  28. You are right in that it won't kill us, it will make us stronger. Just not right now. It will make us stronger in the future but for now it is bloody HARD.

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  29. I am so so sorry to hear this. It is just so unfair that we have so little control over these things. I wish you lots of strength as you go forward.

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